Changing Negative Core Beliefs in CBT

Changing Negative Core Beliefs in CBT

6 Powerful Ways to Enhance Your Self-Esteem

Low self-esteem arises when we’re most vulnerable. Verbal cues are learned at a tender age and last well into a person’s adult life. During these formative years, the child’s mind is impressionable. If subjected to emotional abuse, they’re likely to assume this role as their main identity. Life is challenging and being exposed to criticism makes it unbearable, especially when one is in a state of anguish.

Big Things Have Small Beginnings

What will you do with your life? Do you have a goal? Do you have a plan to achieve your goal? Most people live their lives day-to-day. They merely react to the circumstances that they encounter. Then, at the end of their lives, if they reflect on how they have lived, they can make no sense of it. They understand that the world will not miss them at all.

Know Your Worth And Value

Having a strong sense of worth gives you a better life, and lets you give better to life. Building confidence and courage gives you high self-esteem, and gives you a foundation for a great life.

Live Your Current Life With Purpose – Yesterday Is Gone, Listen to Your Internal Guidance

LIFE IS THE CULMINATION OF EVENTS MEANT TO TEACH, GUIDE AND EXPAND, OUR MINDS. Life is uncomplicated, it’s humanity and the ingrained drama that diverts us from purposeful way to understand and communicate better with ourselves first, and then with one another. Yesterday is gone, you have more opportunities to plan a better day if you listen to what your internal guidance wants to tell you. You are better equipped now, than you were last year, to block the words, songs or untruths, based on ego, that are dancing around in you head. Your self-loving characteristic will not delude you, if balanced, respected, filtered and if congruent with other ideologies, will form into the road map of your desired life. Make a conscious choice to entertain and experience growth in your scope of thought, through all of your interactions, in lieu of responding to triggers that ignite bias, fear, joy, or pain.

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Speak Words of Inspiration: Ignite Your Passion From Within

Learn from the spoken words of others in newspapers, media and books. Give a second look, not just a stare, or a fast glance, give yourself an encouraging chance to advance by fanning the flames and harnessing the cinders that empower your desired verbal or written fire. Increase your communication and the energy in words that you emit, desire to speak with passion, inspire, teach, educate or entertain. Use your own communication skills to your benefit and fan the flames of success with unequivocal passion and conviction.

How To Be Confident With Girls

There are many guys who are very introvert especially when it comes to talking to a girl or meeting them. So, if you are also shy or scared to meet and talk to girls, then you lack enough confidence. And it is very important to have confidence while talking to a girl.

Body & Mind As One

What do you see when you look into the mirror? Where does your attention go to when you come up-close with yourself and standing face to face with it? Do you instantly scrutinize that new pimple that popped out yesterday? Or that new found wrinkle that formed overnight from laughing and smiling too much?

Have a Mind of Your Own

When the teachings of life lessons and personal growth is so simplistic, you’d often take a look at it and the very next moment, you move on repeating the same negative habits. Many habits, especially new ones, require repetition, focus, and concentration to condition the brain to digest and remember, to rewire, reset, and reboot the system.

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How To Be Confident At Work

We all have self doubts sometimes. If your confidence is threatened, there are things you can always do to restore. Some of them are as follows: -Be focused. -Ask questions -Ask for feedback. -Accept mistakes. -Trust your gut. -Find supportive workmates.

Message From the Universe: Be True to Yourself, That’s What Matters!

Being true to yourself is what matters the most. Believe in what you can do, believe that you can accomplish all your goals, believe that you will succeed as no one else out there can know you more than yourself. There is so much abundance out there so forget about how much others have and focus on how much you can get if you put your mind and belief into it. Money is like a shadow. Have you tried running after your shadow? Kinda of hard isn’t? However, depending on the angle of the sun, your shadow can stand behind you, which makes your shadow (money) run after you. The sun is your attitude. Start changing your attitude and the rest will follow. Money will come running after you before you know it.

Message From the Universe: Giving Away Powers!

By admitting your mistakes, you assume responsibilities of your actions. This is what many out there are incapable of doing. It is the coward way to go. If you believe a mistake have been made, there is nothing wrong to apologize for it, as people will find your action more admirable versus trying to hide it and get away with it. It will always come back and bite you in the ass. It is easier to just fess up and make sure not to make the same mistake again.

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Is Humility Strength And Evidence Of High Self Esteem?

Some would say that an achieved humble man has high self-esteem as he doesn’t have to prove anything to anyone. Yes, I can see that point, although that’s not the end of the story and it is hardly the beginning either. Not long ago, I was discussing all this with a fellow think tank type mind and they noted an old famous quote:

Is Humility Really A Virtue?

Many are taken aback by those who project strength and ego, many don’t like braggarts even if they are well-achieved and being honest about their abilities and successes. Many believe that good people don’t brag and bad people do. I think this is all a societal and cultural construct and it may even be evolutionarily unnatural and it certainly goes against what we observe in other species, specifically the alpha males in most mammalian species. Are we making a mistake in our society by calling out the strong and less humble? We might be, and this tendency could explain the need for so much self-validation on Facebook too. Let’s take this topic deeper on a philosophical level.

Darling You’re Not Messed Up, You’re Just Misinformed!

Do you beat yourself up for not being what you “think” is normal? Are you frustrated with yourself and think if you can just fix whatever is wrong with you, then your life would be better? Well Darling, you’re not messed up, you’re just misinformed. In this enlightening article, you will uncover the myths of what “normal” is and build your self-esteem at the same time.

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